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  1. Embassytown

    For this month's science fiction and fantasy book club, I read Embassytown by China Miéville.

    tl;dr I rate the book 3 ½ stars.

    Plot

    Avice, a human, grows up in the human neighborhood of a city on Arieke, an alien planet at the edge of known space. She is …

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  2. Interviewing

    I have been helping my company interview, which makes for a great opportunity to elaborate on my experiences and perspectives: what do I look for when I interview a candidate?

    Green flags

    These are a collection of positive qualities and behaviors that I look for in a candidate.

    Online presence …

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  3. Remote Team Building

    I've had the privilege recently of organizing a few team building events. I am writing this to share my experience.

    Welcome

    The first event was to welcome a new team member.

    I chose Friday, as it's typically an easygoing day. In Google Calendar, I added the dozen team members, and …

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  4. Fantasies

    At the monastery yesterday, the monk explained how people form images of others in their minds, and those images crystallize. For example, older family members may treat you as if you were still a child, because in their mind they still see you as a child.

    Change and attachment

    This …

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  5. Lottery Ticket

    "You can't win the lottery without buying a ticket" - wisdom shared with me this week.

    Buying a ticket

    I have spent my adult life minimizing risk in favor of the safety of routine. I have bought few "lottery tickets," whether for small and large "jackpots." When I have, it's usually …

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  6. One Year of Fellowship

    I am approaching one year in a 12 step fellowship. As fate would have it, I also just wrapped up Step 12. While not easy to write about publicly, I want to take the opportunity to reflect on my experiences in the program.

    Hitting a bottom

    A nasty breakup led …

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  7. The Only Harmless Great Thing

    For my science fiction book club I read this novelette (note: a novelette is shorter than a novella). In the meeting I was surprised to hear that a few members couldn't finish it. I rarely stop reading a book - though there are countless unfinished books on my shelf.

    Anyway, to …

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  8. Indecision

    Indecision plagues me. I am planning a trip to a conference for my team, and have to pick the hotel. Thankfully, the conference recommends a few hotels. Not so thankfully, the options are mostly identical.

    Why not choose?

    Let's start at the beginning. I believe there's a spectrum of indecision …

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  9. Travel Practical Tips

    As a follow up to my travel guidelines, I want to share some practical tips from my experience.

    Research ahead of time

    I'm paying a nice chunk of change to travel, so I will invest some time in planning ahead: tourist attractions, tourist pitfalls, etc.

    Reddit and youtube travel vlogs …

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